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  •  讀書369 >> 名著茶館 >> 美文閱讀>>正文
    如何才能遇見對的人?

      記得上學時認識一位挺特別的姑娘子萬,外表學識和談吐都屬上乘。

      追求者中也不乏幾個條件特別突出、感覺能與她匹配的男人,但姑娘統統用一句官方客套名言拒絕了:

      先不急,讓我先成為更好的自己,然后再去遇見一位惺惺相惜的愛人。

      “惺惺相惜”從此成為很多姑娘最愛的詞匯。在校園里榜樣的力量是無窮大的,可能也是姑娘們都非常認同子萬的觀點,所以她們開始比以往更加熱衷于泡圖書館博覽群書。

      那時候,仿佛一夜之間,校園隨處可見的恩愛情侶驟減。

      本來談著戀愛的姑娘們減少了約會次數,更多時間用來充電,本來觀望的姑娘們也果斷的放棄了掙扎,覺得不如去進步來得正確。

      一個意見領域的一句話,引領起一整個大學的修煉自身的熱潮。這在當時,是一件挺牛逼的事兒。

      其實,在自己最美好的年華里遇見對的人,是很多姑娘最初的愛情期待。

      但有時候會有姑娘搞反了方向,她們信奉愛情至上,覺得愛上便是永恒,此刻唯他值得一切,在付出與遷就的漩渦里越陷越深,失去自己。

      H是位真性情,初入大學就談戀愛,男生青澀她成熟,男生內斂她奔放,她從不回避談論自己的男朋友,從幫他洗衣服到陪他上課,從大一到大四,她愛的真真切切。

      H幾乎花費了所有的精力與時間在男朋友身上,自己的學業也基本處于荒廢狀態,偶爾零花錢有結余也全部用來給男朋友買吃的。

      四年下來,多數姑娘都學會了化妝,H卻不化,美其名曰男朋友就喜歡她素顏不施粉黛還那么可愛的樣子。

      然而,她男朋友的話是有有效期的。

      他畢業即出國了,H表示會在原地等他,他拒絕了:“對不起,也許你很難接受,但是我們已然不合適了……對不起。”

      “如果對不起有用的話,就請它把我送回四年前吧,我要同那時的自己講一講,掰回一半的精力來投資自己的頭腦和臉蛋,如果力和美麗我已經練就一樣,也就不至于在他出國時,將自己放進無助的深淵里,久久起不來。”

      這是挽救無望后小H的內心獨白。

      當你在原地開始踏步,而他開始青云直上的時候,你們之間的差距越來越大,那么,對的人也成了錯的人。

      這種對錯轉換,沒有理由。

      后悔能有什么用?倒不如從即刻開始,成為更好的自己,也許明天還有另外的男神就站在拐角處。

      子萬后來進入上海交大繼續深造金融專業,但她的未來依然牽動著母校很多人的目光。

      她入職一個投資后,和同一部門大她幾歲的一位學長一見鐘情,然后倆人在事業上相互幫扶在生活上彼此照料,日子蒸蒸日上。

      子萬不久前生了孩子,身材恢復不錯,發出的照片仍然神采奕奕,微博上的留言也多是當年的校友留下的。

      有人說:“祝賀你終于找到了惺惺相惜的愛人。但能分享一下是一種什么樣子的體驗么?我覺得我一生也遇不到了,感謝。”

      子萬的神奇老公有一句神回復,又成了姑娘們嘖嘖不已的金句。他說:“惺惺相惜的感覺很具體,就是她已經為我生了孩子,我卻仍然感覺沒有追到手。”

      這其中的珍惜、尊重與愛,已經滿溢出來。

      一個姑娘能嫁到的最好的老公,就是他婚后對待你比婚前還重視,唯恐哪一天會失去你。

      而這地位,是子萬自己掙來的。

      所以,你要如何遇見對的人?

      嗯,成為最好的那個自己,對的人自然會慕名而來。

      還有,成為最美的那個自己,那個人永遠舍不得離開。

      雖然據說有些人一生都遇不到對的人,但你一生都要時刻準備著,去遇見。

      而遇見是一場奇妙的緣分,你千萬不能輕視了這場邂逅,不能沒洗頭去相親,不能臟著鞋去偶遇,更不能素顏朝天出門溜達。

      你永遠也不知道,下一秒,會遇見誰。

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